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Course
Description:
Perhaps nothing is more profoundly human and universal than the
experience of and
awareness
of mortality and loss -- our own and those around us. As a
nation, for example, sometimes our attention is riveted on the death of
an individual figure (Terry Schiavo, The Pope, Chief Justice
Rehnquist). Sometimes we are collectively shocked, horrified, and
galvanized by the sheer magnitude of deaths caused by events such as
the tsunami or genocide in Sudan or the impact of hurricane Katrina and
its aftermath. Perhaps
nothing
is more unique and personal -- and yet informed by our community, our
cullture, and our sense of history -- than the ways in which we
experience,
process,
and express such awareness. And, finally, perhaps nothing is more
paradoxical
and remarkable than the ways in which such awareness can be brought to
enrich
our lives to challenge us to live differently and to act differently --
to enhance our creativity, social commitment, compassion,
thoughtfulness, and joy.
This
course allows students to focus in on questions of Death and Dying and
on
Life and Living. The semester's work will emphasize the topics of
grief,
bereavement, aging, and the dying process as it relates to
individuals
and to caregivers. These topics will be considered with an
awareness
of history and of various cultures with the central stress being on the
present
and on American multiculture. We will consider too how such
topics are
complexified
by issues of race, class, gender, cultural values, etc. Although
the
focus on various topics at different points in the semester (see
Assignment Calendar
below) allows us to consider many areas, there is much interweaving of
the
materials
of this course. Thus topics such as aging or gief are not just
treated
separately in a strictly linear approach, but are woven togther in an
"intellectual
tapestry." As various texts and a/v materials "talk to" and "talk
back
to" other texts, so I encourage you to engage thoughtfully, critically,
and imaginatively with the texts and the materials we encounter during
the
semester. I especially encourage you to bring the materials to
bear
on your own experiences and to bring those experiences to bear on the
course
materials.
Required
Texts : Get ALL SIX (6)
of your books early from the bookstore. Do not wait until they are
due because the bookstore returns leftover books to the distributors
shortly into the semester. The remaining texts are available
through WebCT or the Web.
Texts: Joan Didion. The Year of
Magical Thinking; Maria Housden. Hannah's Gift: Lessons from a Life Fully
Lived; Pauline Boss. Ambiguous
Loss; Audre Lorde.
Cancer Journals; and Leo
Tolstoy, Leo. The Death of Ivan Illych; DD&B
= Dying, Death, and Bereavement Annual Editions 05/06
ed. George Dickinson and Michael Lerning. NOTE: You must have the 05/06
edition because the earlier editions do not have all
of the assigned readings for the course.
Texts not included in the 6 main books are available through WebCt . Full citations for all readings are provided at D&D S06 Texts & Key . You can access WebCt directly from here or through your usual routes. You need your Ramapo email username and password and you need to be formally enrolled in the course. If you can't get into WebCt go immediately to the Tec trailer to find out how to get on. Many readings are also available on reserve in the library. Search Potter Library catalog under Course Reserve and then under course MMET314 Death and Dying for the call number. Paper materials are available at the circulation desk on the main floor of the library. Most are also available through electronic reserve and can be accessed from any computer with your Ramapo email username, password, and library bar code number.
Grading
Policy
Grief Essay (grade is
based on the revised draft) = 20%
Group Project group grade = 10%
Individual Abstracts for group
project (3) = collectively 10%
Experiential Projects (2) = 10%
each; total 20%
Quizzes (collectively) = 10%
Take Home Midterm = 10%
Final Exam = 10%
Class participation (including
attendance) = 10%
Student Obligations
1) Readings:
You will be reading a number of books, essays, chapters, etc. during the semester. The reading is significant and important. I will quiz you each class to ensure that you are keeping up with the reading because the reading will inform our discussions, in-class activities, and your writings. I expect you to have the assigned reading completed before the class meets each week. The quizzes will count 10% of the overall grade of the course
2)
Writing
Tasks:
a. Grief/Caregiving
essay
Guidelines:
You have three alternatives for this
first paper. The first is to describe "An Experience I
Have Had
with Death and/or Grief."
Use the Loss Assessment sheet completed
the first class and the Loss History completed for the second
class
to help you in thinking about and drafting the Grief Essay the first
draft of which is due in Class 3.
Describe in 3-4 pages drawn from your own personal experience (no
research is necessary at this point) an encounter that you have had
with death or loss or grief. You may describe any experience that
you have had with loss or grief or
death that has
had a strong impact on
you. It
could be a death or the life-threatening illness of yourself or of
someone
you love, or the loss of an ability, or a relationship, the loss
of a
pet, etc. Grief takes many forms. Option 2 is to describe "An
Experience I Have Had
with Caregiving for someone with a life-altering illness." Option 3 is to describe "An
Experience I Have Had
with living with a life-altering illness."
Note:
Keep
a copy for yourself. When you receive this paper back
with my comments make a xerox immediately to attach to the final
revision
which is due Class 11. The revised version will need to
incorporate
insights
-- and be reshaped through the lens of the course and will need to
demonstrate clearly and convincingly (with appropriate documentation)
where reading, a/v, discussion, and experiential materials from the
semester have helped further your
understanding and thinking about
this experience -- or have led you to explore in detail an entirely
different one. (Let me know if you expect that your focus will
change dramatically on the second version of the essay!) You must use
either Didion's Year of Magical Thinking or Boss' Ambiguous Loss or
Lorde's Cancer Journals among your sources. You must also use
another 4-6 sources which can include one of the other books, some of
the articles or short readings, and/or some of the videos we have
viewed as a class. The second
draft of the essay must be
appropriately documented with parenthetical citations and a
bibliography page. Please follow MLA or APA style for your
documentation. Attach a copy of your first version with my
comments to the revised version. Your grade will in part depend
on how well
you address suggestions made at the earlier stage, Due Class
11. Worth 20% of the overall semester grade.
c. A take-home
midterm exam between 5-10 pages in length (guide distributed
Class 7, paper due Class 9).
The midterm is worth 10% of the overall semesetser grade.
d. Group Panel research, Annotated
Bibliography AND Presentation: Note: In lieu of
a full-scale research paper for this class you will be asked to do a
limited research task as a part of a group working on a common
theme. The group will pursue a
research project
which will result
in a collective annotated bibliography and a panel presentation on the
date of the assigned topic. Group
A: Elderly Due Class 8; Group B Caregiving Due Class 9; Group C Ethical
Dilemmas, Due Class 10; Group D: Children and Illness/Dying Due Class
12; Group
E Children and Grief Due Class
13.
The
group will collectively develop an
annotated
bibliography
including the sources identified by all members of the group.
Annotations will be further condensed from the formal abstracts (see
below for Individual Journal Article Abstracts).
The collective annotated bibliography will be prepared by the group and
copied for class members and presented to the class as part of a panel
presentation on the overall topic. It will be accompanied
by a Topic
Overview,
a 2-3 page
handout of
key
points about the topic based on the groups' analysis of
the research (See below for Research Resources and Tips) that was done
and 3-4
concise recommendations for actions or changes or new policies
regarding improving the situation for this topic.
(Note: These recommendations can be framed for individuals, employers,
communities,
government, schools, etc.) Each individual
will
receive a group grade based on the panel presentation and the
collective handout. (All members of the group will receive the
same group grade so be sure that you are pulling your weight and
expecting the same of the other members of your group. Note: the
group grade is in addition to the individual grades awarded for the 3
abstracts).
e. Individual Journal
Article
Abstracts (3) Each member of the group
will
research one particular aspect of the group's topic and will identify 3
key juried journal articles on the topic (not the first 3 -- the best 3!)
-- ideally from the perspective of the individual's particular
professional field -- i.e. a social work major should be looking at
social work articles on the selected aspect of the group topic e.g.
"social work interventions in caregiver burnout." The individual
member will prepare a full formal abstract of these three articles (see
guidelines from LEO at http://leo.stcloudstate.edu/bizwrite/abstracts.html
or the University of Toronto Abstract
Guidelines). These abstracts will be submitted along with copies of the original
articles and the abstracts provided by the databases -- for
individual grades on the day that the Group presents. The
abstracts are worth collectively 10% of the semester's grade.
f. Experiential Projects (2 of these) EP1 due Class 7; EP2 Class 13. Click here for options. Each EP2 is worth 10% of the overall semesetser grade.
g. A final exam -- details will be announced later. The final is worth 10% of the overall semesetser grade.
h. Please read the "Reflections" entries which will be used in microlabs during the semester and which you may also want to draw from in your various work.
3) Research Resources
and Tips: General Guidelines:
Click here for various sources on writing and research in
general:
Writing/Research Links
| and for the
D&D bibliography which I have compiled to assist you in your
research. We will be visiting the library early in the semester
for special help from a librarian in beginning and focusing the
research process. Note: You are being asked to do a
limited focused research project rather than a full-scale research
paper but the same principles, techniques, and strategies apply.
Library Research: The very best way to do your
non-experienced research is by using journal articles. Many are
available through our electronic databases (go to library
homepage
http://www.ramapo.edu/content/campus.resources/potter/ and click on
electronic resources. Enter your campus email username and
password. (In some cases you will also see your library barcode.)
This gives you access to any of our many databases
a number of which provide full-text versions of the articles you are
seeking. You can search for various topics using keyword
searches. Particularly relevant databes include CINAHL (nursing
and allied health); Encyclopedia of Life Scieces; LexisNexis Academic;
ProQuest, PsycInfo(Ebsco), Social Sciences Abstract. Some
journals you might consult (some in paper, others electronically) are: Death
Studies (This is an especially important journal and it is
available in two full text electronic databases
available through Ramapo: EbscoHost/Academic Search and ProQuest.) Omega:
An International Journal for the Study of Dying, Death, Bereavement,
Suicide,
and Other Lethal Behaviors (available in Ramapo's periodicals
section).
Other useful journals include Loss, Grief and Care: A
Journal
of Professional Practice; Bereavement Magazine; Illness,
Crisis
and Loss; Thanatos. Gerontology Journals include:
The Journal of Gerontology; The Gerontologist; Research on Aging; The
Journal
of Gerontological Nursing; and The Journal of Gerontological
Social
Work. You may need to consult these via interlibrary loan or
at
another library (your Ramapo card entitles you to use any state college
or university library in New Jersey). In addition, Ramapo has a
substantial collection of books and other resources on death and dying.
Specialized books on thanatology can be obtained (purchase only) from: Compassion Books, 477 Hannah Branch Road, Burnsville, NC 28170 ((828) 675-5909. The ADEC Catalogue of books is on reserve and is an excellent resource for an overview of available materials. You can write to them directly to have a free catalogue sent to you. You can also consult the website www.compassionbooks.com Excellent pamphlets for distribution are available from Media Publishing, PO Box 89, Redmond, VA 90073 (206) 881-2883.
Internet
Research:
Web resources and links for D,
D, & B can be
found at http://www.dushkin.com/
for selected
weblinks regarding death,
dying,
bereavement and loss. Choose Annual Editions and click on Dying,
Death,
and Bereavement 8e 05/06. I have also collected additional links
at http://phobos.ramapo.edu/~kfowler/d&dlinks.html
.
Do be wary about internet research.
Anyone
can put anything out on the net. Evaluate your site for
usefulness
and credibility. In most cases you will want to corroborate
internet
materials with journal materials that have gone through a peer review
(i.e.
other professionals in the appropriate area have reviewed the article
and
judged it worthy of publication). Ramapo's library has an
excellent
guide to evaluating websites at http://potter.ramapo.edu/homepage/evaluating.html
and to citing websites and print resources at
http://potter.ramapo.edu/homepage/citing.html
Organizations and Agencies:
Association
of
Death Educators and Counselors (ADEC).
This is
a key organization sponsoring conferences and workshops. It also
has an accreditation process. For information contact the ADEC
Central Office at 638 Prospect Avenue, Hartford Ct. 06105. There
are student rates and Ramapo students have attended. The 2006
conference will
be in Tampa, Florida from March 29- April 2, 2006. The theme this
year
is: Grief and Loss: Wisdom and
Insight. There are
Student
Initiative
Scholarships that pay for conference attendance and ADEC membership for
a year. See http://www.adec.org/awards/studinit.htm
For more info about the organization and/or about the conference
consult their home page: http://www.adec.org/
Hospice Foundation of America
broadcasts an annual teleconference on some aspect of "Living with
Grief." Ramapo College is a host site for the
teleconference. The 2006 teleconference on Pain Management at the
End of Life will be held Apr. 6, 2006 from 1-4. Attendance at the
teleconference will count as one of your Experiential Projects.
Be sure I am aware of your presence at the teleconference. You
must be present for the full 3 hours.
United Hospice
of
Rockland, 5 Parkview Plaza, Thiells Mt., Ivy Road, Pomona, NY
10970 (845) 354-5100; Center for Help, 326
Hillsdale Ave., Hillsdale, NJ 07642 (201-666-0009
4) Attendance
As this course proceeds throughout the semester, the written materials, lectures, class discussions and contributions of guest lecturers build upon each other and integrate into a cohesive whole. Thus attendance is a "must" and it is expected that no more than one class will be missed. Attendance will be gathered via quiz papers at the beginning of each class and may be taken again at the end of the class. In case of difficulty, see me. Tardiness over ten minutes or leaving the class early counts as 1/2 absence.
5) Class Participation
In class we will be approaching the material through a number of techniques including large group discussion, small group exploration, sharing of experiences, brief in-class writings, and reading aloud. We are a community of learners approaching the subject of death and dying together to understand, to celebrate, to commemorate and to share. I expect all of you to participate actively in all of these forms of engagement with the texts and the minds behind the texts. And -- to encourage you to take an active role -- the more you talk, the less I talk! Participation is important and will count as 10% of your grade.
6) Class Decorum
Class decorum is essential. Please be on time and orderly about your arrival. Late arrivals and early departures not only damage your learning but disrupt the concentration of others in the class. If you must be late, for some reason, please enter quietly and take a seat near the door. Be respectful of the opinions and contributions of your classmates. On occasion this class will raise difficult feelings in members of the class. Please treat yourselves and each other with compassion and patience. I will not hesitate to ask anyone to leave who chooses not to behave in a responsible and respectful manner. Your conduct will enter into your participation grade.
7) The Ouch Rule
All students are expected to adhere to rules of conduct that contribute to an atmosphere conducive to the discussion of perspectives which spring from differences in age, race, gender, physical and mental abilities, ethnicity, sexual orientation, class background, and personal experiences. Because we are reading, writing about, and discussing very sensitive material -- and because we have all been acculturated in a society which remains racist/sexist/heterosexist/classist etc. at the most profound linguistic level -- we need to be aware when we make comments which are hurtful or offensive to others. Hence -- "the Ouch Rule." If someone makes a remark which causes you pain or offense, say "Ouch." It is not necessary to explain why you have said "ouch," although you may if you wish. The word itself will cause us to pause and rethink what has just been said.
8) Academic
Integrity: Academic Integrity is essential. Do Not
Violate! Plagiarism and cheating are the theft of another's
words or ideas and
can result in penalties as serious as expulsion from the college. See
the Student Handbook for guidelines on plagiarism and cheating. If you
have
any doubts about how to present material from other sources, please
come
see me for help. If I find a paper which I believe has been plagiarized
I
will forward it to the Vice President's Office for action. Don't
do
this to me or to yourself!
The
following is an
All College
Statement: Academic Integrity
(College Guidelines):
All students at
Ramapo
College are expected to maintain academic integrity. There are
four broad forms of academic dishonesty.
1.
Cheating:
An act of deception by which a student misrepresents his or her
mastery of material on a test or other academic exercise.
2. Plagiarism
(including internet) Representing someone else's words, ideas, phrases,
sentences, or data as one's own work without citing the source.
3. Academic
misconduct: Alteration of grades, involvement in the acquisition
or distributions of unadministered tests and the unauthorized
submission of student work in more than one class.
4. Fabrication:
The deliberate use of invented information or the falsification
of research or other findings with the intent to deceive.
Violation of
any of these
may result in an "F", and students may be subjected to disciplinary
proceedings.
Note on
Reserve
Materials: Some of the readings on WebCt are also on reserve
in
the library if you prefer this form of access. In that case go to
the library homepage
http://www.ramapo.edu/content/campus.resources/potter/ , click on
Course Reserve, for instructor choose Kay Fowler, for course, choose
MMET314 Death and Dying. The library has put many of the shorter
reserve
pieces on electronic format which will allow you to access them
remotely from any computer using your Ramapo email address and password
and your library barcode. Where the
electronic form is not available you will need to go directly to the
library and ask for the item by its call number at the circulation
desk. You will
need your student I.D. Among the reserved material is Sogyal
Rinpoche's Tibetan Book of Living and Dead (on the syllabus as
TBLD). This book is a paperback and is fairly readily available.
(The bookstore should have a few copies). We will be
reading about 65 pages of it. You may wish to own your own copy.
If not several hard copies of
the material have been placed on reserve along with the electronic
extracts on WebCT.
Note on
Collaborative
Learning
: I encourage you to work together in study groups to enhance your
engagement with these materials. This course should be
collaborative rather than competitive. Student Presentations and
writings should, of course, be your individual product but
understanding should be our collective achievement.
Note on
Service
Learning Option: Service Learning allows you to work in an
agency or other organization (often nonprofit). By keeping a
reflective journal incorporative course materials you are able to
combine your academic course material with "hands on" experience.
Specifics will be available in class and in individual
consultation with me. Contact person:
Barbara Sembieda, Office of Experiential Learning C209, X7447.
See the Service Learning Web page at
http://www.ramapo.edu/studentlife/cahill/servicel/info.htm
Note for Honors Students : If you wish to take this class as an Honors option, you must notify me right away. We will develop together a plan of additional readings and assignments.
Note for
Students with
Special Needs: Please let me know as soon as possible if you will
have special needs or challenges in taking this course. If you are a
student with a documented disability seeking academic accomodations
that are disability related, you need to be registered with the Office
of Specialized Services (OSS). This is a college policy.
After you have registered with OSS, please make an appointment
with me during the first three weeks of the semester to discuss any
requests or accomodations that you may need. See the Office of
Specialized Services website at:
http://www.ramapo.edu/studentlife/studentServices/oss/home.html
Creation
of Groups:
Group A: Aging/Elderly; Group
B: Caregiving; Group C:
Ethical Dilemmas;
Group D: Children and
Illness/Dying: Group
E: Children and Grief (Note: we will
talk in class about the ways that these groups should be constructed
and the guidelines
for the group projects and panel
presentations). In the meantime note on the syllabus where
the
Group
you are in has particular assignments -- see for instance, next week.
Experiential
Projects: Discussion of options. See D&D Experiential Project Guide.
Language
of death, dying, and grieving.
"About Thanatology" (Handout
)
Poetry (Read in Class) : John Donne, "Death Be Not Proud";
Emily Dickinson, "Because I Could Not Stop for Death, Dylan Thomas
, "Do Not Go Gentle" Roberta Hill, "A Nation Wrapped in Stone";
Gerard Manley Hopkins "Spring and Fall: To a Young Child";
Lucille Clifton "For deLawd"; Li Ch'ing Chao
"P'u-Shen Sheng
Man" Mary Oliver, "Blossom" Wilfred Owen "Anthem for
Doomed Youth" William Carlos Williams "To Waken an Old Woman"
(Handout
) See D&D
Poetry
Submit
(Everyone): Completed Loss
Assessment Sheet, and Bugen
Coping
Scale (HO only) Plus a signed copy of the
Course Understanding Sheet (another copy for your own use is available
through WebCt under "D&D Questionnaires & HOs"
CLASS 2: Tues Feb. 7: Focus on Historical Context: Read before (!) class: **Leo Tolstoy "The Death of Ivan Ilych" (1886) (Title story only); To prepare for class discussion read the Tolstoy keeping in mind the reading/study questions on Ivan Ilych. We will be working together in class on these questions. PLUS Philippe Aries "Death Inside Out"; Frost: Robert Frost "Home Burial"; J. Mack Welford "American Death and Burial Customs" available through WebCt
Submit (Everyone): Completed
Loss History (available
through WebCt under "D&D Questionnaires & HOs"); SPECIAL NOTE: Keep
a copy of this -- and everything!! -- for yourself.
CLASS
3:
Tues Feb. 14:
Focus on
Understanding Grief
Read before class:
Joan Didion.
The Year of Magical Thinking. (2004) AND Michael R. Leming and George E. Dickinson.
"Grieving Process"
DD&B 6.36, 178-182 ALSO READ through WebCt Victoria
Cummock,
"Journey of a Young Widow" (1996)
AND Ken
Doka "Sudden Loss: The
Experiences of Bereavement" (1996);
Lord: Janice
H. Lord,
"America's Number One Killer: Vehicular Crashes
(1996).
CLASS 4: Tues Feb. 21: Focus on Cultural/Social Context: Everyone Read before (!) class: William J. Whalen. "How Different Religions Pay Their Final Respects." DD&B 5.30, 160-162 Plus through WebCt Rinpoche 2/3: Sogyal Rinpoche Tibetan Book of Living and Dying 14-40 (Ch. 2 "Impermanence" and Ch. 3 "Reflection and Change") . To prepare for class discussion read the Rinpoche keeping in mind the reading/study questions on Rinpoche. We will be working together in class on these questions.
PLUS: (Note all the following readings are available through WebCt )
Submit (Everyone): Revised/Final Draft of Introductory Grief Essay This must be attached to a copy of the first draft with my comments and suggestions noted on it. Reminder: Revisit Guidelines for Grief Essay before you rework.
Inclass: FIELD TRIP: GRAVES BY RAMAPO RIVER. WE WILL END CLASS TODAY BY VISITING SEVERAL GRAVES THAT ARE ACROSS RTE 202 NEAR THE RIVER. In case of bad weather -- this may be rescheduled for next week.
CLASS
12:
Tues. Apr. 25: Focus
on Children: Illness and Death
Read before class: **Maria
Housman. Hannah's Gift (all) Plus through WebCt :
Bradshaw: Glenna Bradshaw, et. al.
"Cancer-Related Deaths in
Children and Adolescents." (2005).
Group
D
Panel Present
Children and Illness/Death.
Group D
Submit: Prepare
handouts
for full class of collective annotated bibliography and Topic Overview (see D&D S06 Panel Guide for guidelines)
Group D individual members are to submit
3 abstracts of juried journal articles
along with copies of the original
articles and
abstracts provided in the databases (see
D&D S06 Panel Guide for guidelines)
CLASS 13: Tues. May 2: Focus on Children: Illness and Death Read before class: Jay Reeve. "Discussing Tragedy with Your Child." (2002) DD&B 6.43, 208-209 Linda Goldman. "Counseling Children in Contemporary Society" DD&B 6.44, 209-219; Alan D. Wolfelt. "Helping Teenagers Cope with Grief" (2003) DD&B 2.10, 49-50; Plus through WebCt : Alvarez = Lizette Alvarez. "Farewell, with Love and Instructions." (2005); Barrett = Ronald Barrett. "Bereaved Black Children." (1997); Cohen = Judith A. Cohen and Anthony P. Mannarino. "Treatment of Childhood Traumatic Grief." (2004); Mathews = Jennie Mathews. "The Grieving Child in the School Environment." (1999); Saldinger = Amy Saldinger and Albert C. Cain, Katherine Porterfield and Kelly Lohnes. "Facilitating Attachment Between School-Aged Children and a Dying Parent." (2004)
Optional
additional readings in DD&B
Fida 172-173 and Moore 174-176 on Pet Loss.
Group E
Panel Present
Children and Grief.
Submit:
Experiential
Project Report #2 (See Experiential
Project Guidelines)
CLASS 14:
Tues. May 9.
Focus on Grief Work and Healing
Read before class:
Harvard
Women's
Health Watch. "Grief Takes No Holiday." (2002)
DD&B 6.42: 205-208 Plus through WebCt :
Bertman2: Sandra Bertman "The Healing
Power of Art" (1991); Neimeyer =
Robert A. Neimeyer, Holly G. Prigerson, and Betty Davies. "Mourning and
Meaning." (2002); Pick-Me-Ups; Schweibert = Pat
Schweibert. "What Does Time Have to Do with It?";
Jan Ziegler
"How Corporations Cope When Death Intrudes." (1996) AND
Ellen S. Zinner
"Group Survivorship: Effective
Mourning Within the Organization." See also Grief Tips
(James
Miller) at http://www.willowgreen.com
for very concrete suggestions for coping with grief.
Completion of Bugen Coping Scale
(same
instrument
as completed day 1 of the course). Last Class Thoughts
